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Call me hypocrite, but I would speak to women and not think about her in bed. To few guys, women are just a Sex object without any emotions. We cannot blame guys alone for this issue. Women who fall for charming men without knowing the were-about of the guy are also to blame. This bad sample of women make it possible for all the perverted men believe that it is possible to 'bang' every chick they see.(That's how they say it.)
Girls and Ladies out there, you see men and start taking about his charm, biceps and ...., without even talking to him, get ready to get exploited. Complaining after everything, is not going to help. If you choose, looks over substance, be ready to live with a meat ball with a IQ of a dog.(Not always though but probability is high.)
Same applies to men too. If you had chosen a girl because she looks like a barbie doll,I don't have to tell you. You know what you will get.
How is last paragraph relevant to my subject. There is relevance. When Eve's tend to get mesmerized by good looks, they tend to overlook the objective of Adam. They forget the fact that Adam's mostly want forbidden apple. (Adam in this case would be the guys who look to exploit women for pleasure.)
Note: This post doesn't try to insult all the good men and women out there.
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
I
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I am not sure why I am writing this post. But I still want to write it. There are lot of times you will feel that the world treats you like a sh*t. Most of the times truth would be, we are full of ourselves that we assume that way. Take the word "I", "Me","My" from any issue. Problem solved.
I am not being a philosopher here. As a matter of fact, in this post I have already mentioned "I" 6 times. It is not a word which can be avoided at all times rather we can reduce thinking only from our point of view many a times. That should solve so many difficulties you face.
Let me narrate an incident that really happened. We, five friends had gone to Goa for holidays. We were all having good time. Suddenly one friend decided to share his old sad memory. Then he started crying. He was making another friend of mine cry too. We were suppose to be enjoying. After that incident people making joking were considered not sensitive. Two days out of 3 days of holidays gone without even a laughter. Sad that people some time over rate their problem. They care about themselves and no others. In fact the guy who was crying seemed like he wanted attention more than anything.
Sulking, crying, cribbing are not bad. Though these are done mostly to emotionally torture somebody else, if it is done occasionally people will understand. Please don't over-do it and torture others often.
Love not to See you cry,
Keep smiling,
Basto
I am not being a philosopher here. As a matter of fact, in this post I have already mentioned "I" 6 times. It is not a word which can be avoided at all times rather we can reduce thinking only from our point of view many a times. That should solve so many difficulties you face.
Let me narrate an incident that really happened. We, five friends had gone to Goa for holidays. We were all having good time. Suddenly one friend decided to share his old sad memory. Then he started crying. He was making another friend of mine cry too. We were suppose to be enjoying. After that incident people making joking were considered not sensitive. Two days out of 3 days of holidays gone without even a laughter. Sad that people some time over rate their problem. They care about themselves and no others. In fact the guy who was crying seemed like he wanted attention more than anything.
Sulking, crying, cribbing are not bad. Though these are done mostly to emotionally torture somebody else, if it is done occasionally people will understand. Please don't over-do it and torture others often.
Love not to See you cry,
Keep smiling,
Basto
Monday, August 8, 2011
She couldn't take her eyes from him
It was 8 o clock in the morning. I was running to catch the train. The people standing next to me said " let it go". Before I could see who was saying this, the train gained speed. No way I am going to catch this train. "Damn not again". I said to myself. Next train was only after 1 hour.
I bought a news paper and sat down in the waiting bench. Though I was trying to focus on the negative stories like market crash, see saw trade, 'will India be downgraded too?'etc. , I couldn't ignore a group of 5 people standing next to me. The group had 4 girls and a guy wearing blue t-shirt. They were all teenagers. Not sure what the conversation was about, but they all seemed happy.
Then came a girl with train tickets in her hand. She was pretty. The smile in her face will remain in my mind for a long time. Let me name her so it will be easy to differentiate her. "Smiley". :-) . Smiley walked into the group and handed over the tickets to other girls in the group. Then she went to the guy in Blue t-shirt and started a conversation. He couldn't look into her eyes while talking to her. She couldn't take her eyes away from him.
The guy in blue T shirt was able to look at everyone else in the group while talking to them but not at "smiley" while smiley looked only at him irrespective of whoever she was talking to in the group. :-). This doesn't mean that the girl alone liked him. I found out that the feelings were the same as they boarded the same train, same compartment. The way they expressed themselves to each other was completely different. We all have different means of expressing our feelings. If you are smart enough you will enjoy the happy moment. If you are a dumb guy or a girl, you will get frustrated thinking that your feelings are not reciprocated.
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Illusional Love Part 1
Rating:
Happy New year to all the readers.
"Coming soon" tag for this story was there in Pandoras Box for a while. At last I have found some time to write it. Before that let me give some updates about 2008-10 batch people.
Latest - Deepti Thomas is getting married soon. You will get her invitation in groups soon.(Hope so). Christoper's wedding is on 19th Jan 2011.(Just checked in groups). Christoper has arranged for a huge party for all the visiting people from our batch.(Star hotel accommodation and a free Thailand trip for all the non married couples who are attending the wedding). ;)
Cini is also getting married soon in Ernakulam. Vivek Thomas, Janet,Deepti and Rajiv are the potential candidates to attend her wedding from our batch.
Virgin Mobile loses its virginity as it is taken over by Tata. Ravi and Asit are working for 'Tata' now. Ravi got engaged. He will soon lose.............
his single status. (Dirty mind...:) )
Congratulations to all the above.
Gossip Factory: (May or May not be true)
Shocking news from Delhi, the Asha Niwas trio were not allowed to enter "Hard rock Cafe" because they are too old to enter the place. Apparently one of the member was wearing a monkey cap to a pub which showed the trio much more older than they really are.
The two PJ couples of our batch had a great experience in some good locations in Karnataka during the new year eve.
Indo-Srilankan Pair are all set for the wedding in the beautiful Island.
For one of the Tata employees picking up "Female Models" is a part of his job. How cool it sounds isn't it. But of course for ad films and not for any other purposes.
Real incident:
It was a sunny day..some say everyday in Chennai is sunny and few say there is only one season in chennai.."Summer". Leave all this thoughts for now. Let me go to the story. So the story..wait...this is not a story but a real incident.
Even I have been trying hard to find time to write this story. Finally... before starting the story let me give a one liner about the "Illusion-al love story". "Time pass love comes true - You wish". You don't seem to understand anything out of this one liner right..So please read the story now.
The name of the protagonist is Bandeep. The lead female is Benjali. What happened between them?
It was the first day of 2008-10 LIBA batch in college.Many were trying to get to know few of their bath mates. Some wanted to get stuff for their rooms(Hostelers). Some were trying to find whether some hot gals/guys have joined in the batch. But Bandeep was trying to get only one thing. Girl friend. It looked like he has come from some boys college and was so excited to see girls in the campus.
In few modern love stories you will find social networking sites playing a vital part in their initial phases. Same happened in this case. Bandeep joined a 2008-10 LIBA batch group in a social networking site. He was closely watching all the new members in the group. Finally after much of research and tough rounds of short listing he short listed few profiles. Quickly he noted down all the names. He wanted to put signature campaign to of some good use to get to know these people. "Ting"---> (Considered to be innovation if you are part of the any corporate group.)
Hold on---"Doubt".....What is signature campaign in LIBA? Some believe that it is a modified version of ragging.(Not ragging) Ragging is banned in campus. But not signature campaign. The objective of signature campaign is to get maximum signatures from the seniors by doing all the tasks that they gave. Innovation. :). Truth is that it is a very effective tool to get to know all the seniors in a short span of time. I believe all LIBAites are matured enough to use it in right way.
Lets get back to the story. So Bandeep decided to use this signature campaign to get to the know all the short listed candidates. Both seniors and batch mates were part of the list. First he wanted to target low hanging fruit. Seniors. Signature campaign gives an opportunity to talk to any senior. He approached all the seniors in the list. None fitted his criteria. Criteria?
Ya the eligibility criteria he had was:
1. Candidate should be a girl and should also sound like a girl. ;)
2. She should speak one of the language he can understand/Speak.( He knows five languages)
3. Pretty or not, she should stick with him like a leech for at least next two years. (This is not in his criteria though. I just made up.)
4. As first and second criteria mentioned above fits most of the girls in the campus the only main criteria is that she should accept his proposal to be girl friend when he proposed.
This means that he really wasn't looking at anything other than some girl to roam around with. He wanted to boast of to his friends that he has a girl friend. Cool guy image in campus is all he was thinking.
Thought to Ponder on:
Guys and girls if you have a boy friend/Girl friend who socializes a lot find out whether you are a "show piece" for him/her.
No luck for him as all his proposal was rejected by senior girls as it was considered as a task and not a real expression of a desperate guy. In other words he hasn't found his victim yet.
To be continued....
Happy New year to all the readers.
"Coming soon" tag for this story was there in Pandoras Box for a while. At last I have found some time to write it. Before that let me give some updates about 2008-10 batch people.
Latest - Deepti Thomas is getting married soon. You will get her invitation in groups soon.(Hope so). Christoper's wedding is on 19th Jan 2011.(Just checked in groups). Christoper has arranged for a huge party for all the visiting people from our batch.(Star hotel accommodation and a free Thailand trip for all the non married couples who are attending the wedding). ;)
Cini is also getting married soon in Ernakulam. Vivek Thomas, Janet,Deepti and Rajiv are the potential candidates to attend her wedding from our batch.
his single status. (Dirty mind...:) )
Congratulations to all the above.
Gossip Factory: (May or May not be true)
Shocking news from Delhi, the Asha Niwas trio were not allowed to enter "Hard rock Cafe" because they are too old to enter the place. Apparently one of the member was wearing a monkey cap to a pub which showed the trio much more older than they really are.
The two PJ couples of our batch had a great experience in some good locations in Karnataka during the new year eve.
Indo-Srilankan Pair are all set for the wedding in the beautiful Island.
For one of the Tata employees picking up "Female Models" is a part of his job. How cool it sounds isn't it. But of course for ad films and not for any other purposes.
Real incident:
It was a sunny day..some say everyday in Chennai is sunny and few say there is only one season in chennai.."Summer". Leave all this thoughts for now. Let me go to the story. So the story..wait...this is not a story but a real incident.
Even I have been trying hard to find time to write this story. Finally... before starting the story let me give a one liner about the "Illusion-al love story". "Time pass love comes true - You wish". You don't seem to understand anything out of this one liner right..So please read the story now.
The name of the protagonist is Bandeep. The lead female is Benjali. What happened between them?
It was the first day of 2008-10 LIBA batch in college.Many were trying to get to know few of their bath mates. Some wanted to get stuff for their rooms(Hostelers). Some were trying to find whether some hot gals/guys have joined in the batch. But Bandeep was trying to get only one thing. Girl friend. It looked like he has come from some boys college and was so excited to see girls in the campus.
In few modern love stories you will find social networking sites playing a vital part in their initial phases. Same happened in this case. Bandeep joined a 2008-10 LIBA batch group in a social networking site. He was closely watching all the new members in the group. Finally after much of research and tough rounds of short listing he short listed few profiles. Quickly he noted down all the names. He wanted to put signature campaign to of some good use to get to know these people. "Ting"---> (Considered to be innovation if you are part of the any corporate group.)
Hold on---"Doubt".....What is signature campaign in LIBA? Some believe that it is a modified version of ragging.(Not ragging) Ragging is banned in campus. But not signature campaign. The objective of signature campaign is to get maximum signatures from the seniors by doing all the tasks that they gave. Innovation. :). Truth is that it is a very effective tool to get to know all the seniors in a short span of time. I believe all LIBAites are matured enough to use it in right way.
Lets get back to the story. So Bandeep decided to use this signature campaign to get to the know all the short listed candidates. Both seniors and batch mates were part of the list. First he wanted to target low hanging fruit. Seniors. Signature campaign gives an opportunity to talk to any senior. He approached all the seniors in the list. None fitted his criteria. Criteria?
Ya the eligibility criteria he had was:
1. Candidate should be a girl and should also sound like a girl. ;)
2. She should speak one of the language he can understand/Speak.( He knows five languages)
3. Pretty or not, she should stick with him like a leech for at least next two years. (This is not in his criteria though. I just made up.)
4. As first and second criteria mentioned above fits most of the girls in the campus the only main criteria is that she should accept his proposal to be girl friend when he proposed.
This means that he really wasn't looking at anything other than some girl to roam around with. He wanted to boast of to his friends that he has a girl friend. Cool guy image in campus is all he was thinking.
Thought to Ponder on:
Guys and girls if you have a boy friend/Girl friend who socializes a lot find out whether you are a "show piece" for him/her.
No luck for him as all his proposal was rejected by senior girls as it was considered as a task and not a real expression of a desperate guy. In other words he hasn't found his victim yet.
To be continued....
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