Stop looking at women as a Sex Object

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Call me hypocrite, but I would speak to women and not think about her in bed. To few guys, women are just a Sex object without any emotions. We cannot blame guys alone for this issue. Women who fall for charming men without knowing the were-about  of the guy are also to blame. This bad sample of women make it possible for all the perverted men believe that it is possible to 'bang' every chick they see.(That's how they say it.)
Girls and Ladies out there, you see men and start taking about his charm, biceps and ...., without even talking to him, get ready to get exploited. Complaining after everything, is not going to help. If you choose, looks over substance, be ready to live with a meat ball with a IQ of a dog.(Not always though but probability is high.)
Same applies to men too. If you had chosen a girl because she looks like a barbie doll,I don't have to tell you. You know what you will get.
How is last paragraph relevant to my subject. There is relevance. When Eve's tend to get mesmerized by good looks, they tend to overlook the objective of Adam. They forget the fact that Adam's mostly want forbidden apple. (Adam in this case would be the guys who look to exploit women for pleasure.)

Note: This post doesn't try to insult all the good men and women out there.

She couldn't take her eyes from him

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It was 8 o clock in the morning. I was running to catch the train. The people standing next to me said " let it go". Before I could see who was saying this, the train gained speed. No way I am going to catch this train. "Damn not again". I said to myself. Next train was only after 1 hour.

I bought a news paper and sat down in the waiting bench. Though I was trying to focus on the negative stories like market crash, see saw trade, 'will India be downgraded too?'etc. , I couldn't ignore a group of 5 people standing next to me. The group had 4 girls and a guy wearing blue t-shirt. They were all teenagers. Not sure what the conversation was about, but they all seemed happy.

Then came a girl with train tickets in her hand. She was pretty. The smile in her face will remain in my mind for a long time. Let me name her so it will be easy to differentiate her. "Smiley". :-) . Smiley walked into the group and handed over the tickets to other girls in the group. Then she went to the guy in Blue t-shirt and started a conversation. He couldn't look into her eyes while talking to her. She couldn't take her eyes away from him.

The guy in blue T shirt was able to look at everyone else in the group while talking to them but not at "smiley" while smiley looked only at him irrespective of whoever she was talking to in the group. :-). This doesn't mean that the girl alone liked him. I found out that the feelings were the same as they boarded the same train, same compartment. The way they expressed themselves to each other was completely different. We all have different means of expressing our feelings. If you are smart enough you will enjoy the happy moment. If you are a dumb guy or a girl, you will get frustrated thinking that your feelings are not reciprocated.