Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Stop looking at women as a Sex Object

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Call me hypocrite, but I would speak to women and not think about her in bed. To few guys, women are just a Sex object without any emotions. We cannot blame guys alone for this issue. Women who fall for charming men without knowing the were-about  of the guy are also to blame. This bad sample of women make it possible for all the perverted men believe that it is possible to 'bang' every chick they see.(That's how they say it.)
Girls and Ladies out there, you see men and start taking about his charm, biceps and ...., without even talking to him, get ready to get exploited. Complaining after everything, is not going to help. If you choose, looks over substance, be ready to live with a meat ball with a IQ of a dog.(Not always though but probability is high.)
Same applies to men too. If you had chosen a girl because she looks like a barbie doll,I don't have to tell you. You know what you will get.
How is last paragraph relevant to my subject. There is relevance. When Eve's tend to get mesmerized by good looks, they tend to overlook the objective of Adam. They forget the fact that Adam's mostly want forbidden apple. (Adam in this case would be the guys who look to exploit women for pleasure.)

Note: This post doesn't try to insult all the good men and women out there.

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I am not sure why I am writing this post. But I still want to write it. There are lot of times you will feel that the world treats you like a sh*t. Most of the times truth would be, we are full of ourselves that we assume that way. Take the word "I", "Me","My" from any issue. Problem solved.
I am not being a philosopher here. As a matter of fact, in this post I have already mentioned "I" 6 times. It is not a word which can be avoided at all times rather we can reduce thinking only from our point of view many a times. That should solve so many difficulties you face.
Let me narrate an incident that really happened. We, five friends had gone to Goa for holidays. We were all having good time. Suddenly one friend decided to share his old sad memory. Then he started crying. He was making another friend of mine cry too. We were suppose to be enjoying. After that incident people making joking were considered not sensitive. Two days out of 3 days of holidays gone without even a laughter. Sad that people some time over rate their problem. They care about themselves and no others. In fact the guy who was crying seemed like he wanted attention more than anything.
Sulking, crying, cribbing are not bad. Though these are done mostly to emotionally torture somebody else, if it is done occasionally people will understand. Please don't over-do it and torture others often. 

Love not to See you cry,
Keep smiling,
Basto